I’m a failure, I need advice how to deal with it.

2021.12.09 01:41 MooseHeavy3675 I’m a failure, I need advice how to deal with it.

I feel like such a failure
Man….idk where to start. But here it goes.
I’m an 18 year old male. Senior in high school. And I’m a failure. Why? Because I just am. Lemme explain.
So today a girl rejected me. Happens to everyone, but here’s the odd part about it. I never even asked her out. I just told her we should talk more often, in a completely 100% platonic way. She’s dating someone. And that just got me thinking how much of a failure I am. I haven’t dated ever in my life. No first kiss. No holding hands. Hell, last time I felt so close with a girl…..it went really bad. And I still have a deep hatred for myself for that. But I went out of my comfort zone. Boom. She’s dating someone. Great. Even if I just wanted to be friends, she was dating someone and that made me realize- everyone is dating someone now. Most of my friends have dated someone or are dating someone. I think only a few of my friends haven’t, but they’re either really really really smart and studious or they’re just incredibly socially awkward. And….I’m so behind. I’m such a social loser. I can’t even talk to girls. And when I do…it goes wrong. Always. I’ve never dated and I feel like a failure because of that. Girls just don’t like me. I’m ugly probably. Ik most high schoolers hate themselves but none to the extent of me. Soooo…ye. Girl issues. Not dating anyone ever is making me feel so socially behind, and that I’ll never get a fun high school relationship. It sucks. Most people do it, I just fail because I’m the worst human alive. I’m not as bad as hitler, but the fact that I’m only made of flaws just hurts a lot.
In addition, I have really really bad anxiety. Today I had an interview with the college UPenn and I completely fucked that up. I couldn’t talk straight and I felt like shit the entire time. I also had an ap bio presentation on Xanax, and I said slurred sleech instead of speech, just because I was too anxious to talk.
I’m also fucking depressed. No one wants to date a sad sack like me, and even though I do a pretty good job of hiding it, it is still visible and nobody wants to be near someone who is depressed. It’s a stigma.
I’m socially behind and awkward. I fail everytime i talk to girls. Even just platonically I fail. Like I did today.
My grades are declining a lot. I’m usually a straight a and b student but now my usually high bs are turning into low bs and even cs. Which is unusually low for someone like me.
My gym lifts have been decreasing because my stupid right shoulder is injured because of some stupid reason.
But the worst part is I feel like the reason my parents marriage is breaking apart. They usually argue about me, and they have no clue how to argue so it’s just a lot of yelling and stuff, and I’m afraid that it won’t work out because of the stupid shit that I do.
I have no reason to be a victim, I’ve done all of this to myself. I’m cursend by myself because I have no right to live a happy life. No girlfriend to give me some enjoyment in my life. My workout routine has been declining fur to an inJury and increasingly bad diet. My social circle is accepting of me, but I’m way behind them in terms of social ability.
Why this matters?
99.999999999% of jobs require social abilities, and I have no social abolity.
If I can’t get a girl now, how will I know what I want in my future wife, how will I know how to even as k a girl out and respond to them and their responses, how will I be able to have children with a women who will love me and my kids, knowing that I really like children (when they’re well behaved and not super annoying.
How will I manage to be happy in this life when I’m so fucking depressed?
All in all I’m a failure in the things that really matter, and that just makes me the worst person I know. Everyone else had flaws, I’m just flawed at everything I do.
So my question is…..how do I live with myself knowing that I fail everything I do, and that I always will be a failure destined to lead a sad life because I’m a stupid idiot who tries but fails every single time?
If you do decide to respond, be honest please. And all responses are appreciated.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, it means a lot.
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